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Depending on which friend you ask, I'm crazy or really smart.
Depending on which friend you ask, I'm crazy or really smart. I've been dating Luther for almost four years. We spend about five nights of the week together, vacation together and do everything married couples do, including parent nights at his daughter's school. But we don't want to get married,and we don't even want to live together. When we go on vacation and have to share the same space for a few weeks to a month, we discover that we are to set in out ways to tolerate someone else in our space. Some of our friends say we're crazy because we're sending mixed signals to the kid, but other say it sounds like the perfect solution. What do you think?
Velma
Dear Velma,
I think there are kids who grow up in 'broken homes' and if they have reasonable parents, they raise well adjusted kids. This isn't a broken home, so I don't think you're sending some kind of wrong message. I think if the two of you are in love and you respect those boundaries, don't go changing to please me.
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