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How can I get my boyfriend back?

I was dating my boyfriend about six months and we were happy. I know we are young (both 18) but I thought we had something special. He went to a different college than me, but we're both in the same town. He came home over the break with a new friend. "Ron" decided he was in love with me and he couldn't live without me. I fended him off and told him he was insane. He must be insane because he told my boyfriend he was in love with me and couldn't help himself. I told my boyfriend I wanted nothing to do with his friend but this guy would just show up wherever I was. My boyfriend said the pressure was too much and dumped me and ever since he called it off, Ron hasn't bothered me. How can I get my boyfriend back?

Ron sounds like a stalker and if he's the same age as you guys are; he's legal and if he shows up again, I would file a police report.
You have to determine if you really want him back. If you can get your boyfriend alone with Ron, you will have to find out if he dumped you because the pressure was too much or because Ron, who sound completely unstable, made some kind of threat. If he left you to throw Ron off your trail, then that's a man worth trying to get back.
On the other hand, if he dumped you in favor of Ron, you should seriously consider letting the two of them have each other while you find someone worthy of you.
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