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How do I move from someone who wants to date, to someone who is looking for that special someone?
 I am interested in having a relationship. I mean dating is fine, but I want something more. How do I move from someone who wants to date, to someone who is looking for that special someone?  The first thing I think both men and women should do is figure out what it is they're looking for in that special person. It's a good idea to know what you're looking for when dating as well, but we don't always do that. But when we're ready to narrow the playing field of vision, we need to have a clearer understanding of what we want to look at. Literally sit down and write down all those things you want your partner to have. It doesn't make a difference how far fetched it is. If you want her to be in love with the Bengals, put it on the list. If you have a cat that you can't bear to part with, make sure the guy you want likes, not merely tolerates, cats. After that initial list is done, figure out those things on the list that are non-negotiable, flexible, and really not important in the long run. With that list in mind, go back to the dating field, but this time you have a different goal in mind. You can still use your dating skills to find women, but this time it's to find a woman who will ultimately put those skills to rest.
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