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How long should I wait till asking her again?
hey
can you please help me see the problem is i asked out a girl I really really like so much its like when i'm around her all i can think off is that shes so beautiful and i gotta make her mine but she said
"You seem like a really sweet guy, and maybe if it was another time, but I'm still recovering from a break up from a very serious relationship. I've decided just to stay single for a while until I figure out my music and my life. Thank you so much for the compliment though. I haven't ever had a guy be that sweet about asking me out before."
what should I do? should I wait for her?if so how long? How long should I wait till asking her again? could she just be saying this to be nice? Should I tell her I'm willing to wait for her? I don't know what to do
Sweetheart, I'm going to answer your questions in order. What should you do? Take her at face value. She gave you a really good reason why she's not interested. She's still in pain from a previous relationship. It isn't every woman that's going to tell you she has some baggage she needs to dump. Respect that she told you and believe her.
Should you wait for her? No. Because there are no indicators when she'll be emotionally free and there's no reason you should emotionally restrict yourself. It will take her time. It will take you time but you shouldn't spend that time waiting on someone who's already told you her plans for recovery don't include you.
How long should you wait until you ask her again? When you see she's recovered which usually means you'll see she's back on the dating scene. But my guess is by the time that happens, you would have moved on.
Could she just be saying to be nice? Yes. But she could actually be nice and is telling you the truth. Thinking otherwise somehow implies she's lying which gives you permission to pursue her some more. Take her at face value before she tells you in a not so nice way to get lost.
Should you tell her you're willing to wait for her? Only if you're willing to look like a desperate stalker.
I don't know what to do. Leave her alone to recover in her own way which she has a right to do. This isn't the right time for her and your insistance won't be seen as romantic; it will be seen as scary.
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