My fiance and I announced our engagement after dating two years. A few days later, his ex-girlfriend came to my office and told me she and my fiance slept with her while we were together. I asked him about it and he said it was true but it happened when we were going out for about a month. I don't know whether to believe him. Shouldn't he have told me?
You should believe him, and no he shouldn't have told you. Unless you were engaged or in an expressed committed relationship after that month, he was under no obligation to tell you what he was doing when wasn't with you.
You should believe him because he didn't deny it first and then admit it. You should believe him because you should realize no ex with good intentions is going to show up at your place of business and deliver the news that she did. You certainly should have suspected her motives when you found they slept together nearly two years ago. She's a bitter woman, that ex, and you shouldn't sweeten her up by giving her the satisfaction of having upset you. Perhaps you should invite her to the wedding.
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