I’ve been seeing this girl on and off for about eight months. There does seem to be a strong attraction between us, but when things start to get really good, she pulls away and won’t speak for a few weeks. Then she comes back and makes nice all over again. I don’t understand what she could be afraid of and I would like to make a go of this to see if it could be something major. Any advice on what I can do to calm her nerves?
There’s nothing wrong with her nerves. She’s playing with you. Look, this is a girl who wants to have yo-yo and she’s chosen you. Do you really want to try and pursue something major with someone who bolts when things get really good?
The next time she comes back, let her know it’s the last time. You’re interested in a relationship, not a play date and if she can’t stick around you’d rather not be involved. You’ve got to protect your integrity and dignity so they’re intact when you meet someone more willing to participate in a real relationship.
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