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I'm beginning to think he has something or someone to hide.
I've gone on a couple of dates with a guy I met about five months ago. We usually go out during the week which worked for me because it being a "school night" made it easier for me to resist going too far too soon. However, I did recently ask him if he wanted to do something over the weekend and he said he couldn't because he had plans with his friends. That has happened over several weekends. He's available on the weekdays but the weekends are saved for friends. I've also never seen his apartment; he picks me up or meets me somewhere.
I�m beginning to think he has something or someone to hide. Should I insist he do something with me over the weekend? I need to know if I'm a priority.
Wait. Let me see if I got this right. He won�t see you on the weekend. He won't invite you to his apartment, you think he�s hiding someone, but your concern is that you're not his priority? So if he's married with twelve kids, but you're number one on the list, that would be ok?
You need to know if he's married and if he's not you need to understand you�re not anywhere near to being placed on his priority list. Get out your calendar and pick a weekend about two months from now and tell him you'd like to spend that time with him. If he comes up with a reason/excuse why he can't make it � you don't need to know anything else about him cuz he's told you everything you need to know about yourself � namely you don't rank.
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