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I think he might be hidding something or trying to please his parents
I met a wonderful, single, attractive, never-married, no children, professional 37-year-old man in Oct. 2005 and we have been dating exclusively since. From I gather he has not had a long term reationship, but is an only child, and is the typical 50's-boy next door-can never do wrong type of man. Valentines was wonderful and in a card he wrote when the time is right he would like to see our relationship "bonded" together in Christ's name--he a solid Christian, BUT his lack of affection, compliments, and any talk of the future--has me wondering----we have only "old-fashioned lip kissed and hugged---after spending countless weekends together, movies, walks, dinners, concerts,and etc....Some of his hand gestures, voice inflections, and body movements---I am seeing that of a
homosexual man?????
My question is what do I do--he says verbally he loves me and enjoys spending all this time together--but I think he might be hidding something or trying to please his perfectionistic parents---who keep a close tap on his weight???? Yes, he counts calories like a women and eats like one tooo................ Any comments or helpful advice
Dear Reader
I'm confused too, he says he wants a future together bonded in Christ's name, and yet you say he doesn't talk about the future. Valentines Day was wonderful, and you've kissed and hugged, he says he loves you but he lacks affection and from there you jump to he might be gay or trying to please his perfectionist parents, and he counts calories like a woman and eats like one, too. How does a woman eat? And why can't a guy count calories?
I'm sure the problem is his. It seems you're trying to find a reason why this guy hasn't slung you over his shoulder and carried you off in a romantic whirlwind.
He might be gay, or he could think he shouldn't have sex before you bond together in Christ's name.
If you're worried he's gay...ask him, though I doubt you'd believe him. If he's got all these things wrong with him stop seeing him. It isn't fair for you to project this much on the poor guy because he isn't doing what you want when you want it.
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