According to "The Rules", I should play hard to get. So even though I enjoyed the company of the guy I saw last night, I should pretend I'm not available for the next few days so I don't appear desperate. What do you think?
The premise of that book is to pretend you have a life even if you don't to make the chase that much better for him and the capture better for you. Why not actually work on having a life?
During the ebb and flow of things, you might be free one week and not free the next. If you enjoyed his company and he wants to see you again in two days instead of three, then go out with him on Wednesday and do your laundry on Thursday. If you have plans with your girlfriends on Tuesday, don't cancel them for him. Dating should be a part of your life. It can be a priority without becoming the reason for living.
I think the best way to not appear desperate is not to be desperate.
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