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What can I do to get a relationship?
Women like me - as a friend - they never seem to want to date me. Each time I want to move from a friendship to a relationship, the girl says she just wants to be friends. What can I do to get a relationship?
It could take days to answer that question, but the shorter, sweet version is this:
You'll have to study your approach and execution with the thought towards changing your tactics. If every woman you want is saying the same thing you can either: change the type of women you've been approaching or change your approach.
A guy who wants to date will include a few more ingredients when cooking up a relationship: flirtatiousness, seduction, sexual energy. Are you letting those show through when you approach a woman or do you hide them thinking they have no place in meeting women? If you don't show it, they won't know you have it then when it comes out later, you've surprised them with it.
You can start by asking one of these 'friends' what is it about you that says friend and nothing else. If you hear something like, "oh you're so nice, and sweet", that's femspeak for "you approached me as a friend and I took you at your word." That doesn't mean you should turning into a snarling bastard with the next woman. There's nothing wrong with be a nice, sweet guy but if your purpose is to date, your approach should be a nice, sweet guy interested in dating not a nice, sweet guy who will be your friend.
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