What do you think would happen if men decided to play hard to get? I think it might teach women a lesson. I was reading on another website where the advice was not to call a woman more than once a week and not to see her more than once or twice a week. I think that would set a woman back on her heels and show her who’s in charge.
Why bother to ask if you already have the answer? I think when people ‘play’ it sets a dangerous tone to a relationship. I think someone ‘playing’ with you prompted you to ask the question. Here’s the thing about ‘playing’ hard to get or ‘playing’ for keeps or any other ‘play’ phrase: unless you’re both playing the same game, one of you won’t find it fun or entertaining.
I read the same website and had the same reaction to that as I did when I read ‘The Rules’: what idiotic advice. A woman (or a man) is not a puppy you train to ‘sit back on their heels’ or show who’s in charge.
How about this as an alternative:
If you like someone - show it.
If they like you at the same time – enjoy it.
If they don’t like you at the same time – accept it.
If they don’t want you to call them – don’t.
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