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While we were dating, he had been seeing another woman as well
Ive been seeing the same man for about two years. We live a few hours away from each other and his job has demanding hours, so he spends about every other weekend with me. Recently, he told me he wanted to live the rest of his life with me and if that meant finding a job with more reasonable hours and one that was closer to me, then thats what he would do. After he said this, he told me he had a need to be completely honest and said that while we were dating, he had been seeing another woman as well, but hes decided it was me he wanted.
I received a phone call from this woman who thought I was in his handicapped sister. He had told her he needed to live with me because I was wheelchair bound and needed his help. She gave me information that lead me to believe he was still stringing her along.
I dont understand why he would do such a thing and when I asked him, he said he didnt know how to break her heart. I can understand the sensitivity, but I still think theres something wrong in the way he handled it. do you think he could be lying still and should I stay with him?
Faith
Dear Faith
Oh sure you should because maybe you can change him and he can become and upright, honest, hardworking and devoted husband and father and the two of you will never argue and you would have no reason to suspect him of any bad behavior!
ARE YOU KIDDING? You should be gone by now. He was seeing her while you were dating, decided he wanted you, but failed to let her know AND he failed to let you know he didn't tell her they were through and instead created a sister with a handicap!
If he's moving his lips, he's lying. And if you continue to enable him by letting him get away with these obviously lame and stupid excuses, you're a fool.
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