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DilemasStuck in a dilema, Here are some dilemas |

 | How can I deal with the discomfort? I've been dating this guy for about six months. I know I am not the first girl he dated nor is he the first guy I've been with. The problem is that we always seem to be running into his old girlfriends. Everywhere we go there is some girl who he dated 'once or twice.' This is making me very uncomfortable to think that every time I walk into a room there will be someone who he has been out with. |



 | What should I have done? And what can I do the next time? I met someone though an online dating site. We emailed each other (pictures and all) and then we talked on the phone. This went on for about three weeks then we decided to meet. He asked me over to his house for coffee and a light lunch. I went and we were getting along well, but I started feeling a bit uncomfortable a few hours later. |

 | We've never done anything a girlfriend and boyfriend would do What should I do? I have a friend who I want to be more than a friend. We've been part of the same group for about nine years. We're in high school now and we're going to the same college in the fall. Every time he goes out with someone, I get tense and distant and then when he tells me everything that goes wrong, I am the one to help him heal. |

 | I don't know what else to do to make her feel more secure. Any suggestions? I've been seeing this girl for the past seven months. Things can go along quite nicely, but every once in a while she goes crazy with jealousy. I wanted to join a taskforce at my office working on a project that has the potential to rocket my career. She wrote a very nice, professional recommendation. My girlfriend saw it and went through the roof. |

 | I asked her why she wanted me to give her another chance I've been going out with this girl for the past few years. I thought things were going great. But recently, she told me that during the past year, there were a few times when she kissed other men. She said it didn't go past that and she needed to clear her conscious. I told her I needed some time to think about what she said to decide what I wanted to do. |

 | How do I recapture her interest? I'm 22 and women I've been with have considered me more mature than my years. I like older women. I mean, I like girls my age, but I like dating women who are maybe 25 or older as opposed to being with girls who are still school age. I met Stephanie, she's 29, at a beach party and she seemed to like me very much. |



 | What kind of ad should I write I am going to sign up for one of those online date sites. Any suggestions on the kind of ad to write? I don't have to be Mr. Popular, but I don't want to be Mr. Alone either. |

 | Do I even bother calling again if we don't get together Sunday? I'm 22 and have never really dated. A week ago when I went out with a friend to the bar. I met a guy, and ended up going home with him. It's not something I normally do, but we really hit it off and my friend was going home with his friend, and I didn't want to leave her alone. |

 | I am a Christian but the guy I am dating is not I am a Christian but the guy I am dating is not. He’s not an atheist he just doesn’t have a particular faith belief. As we continue our relationship, this has become a bigger issue for me. I don’t know that I can see myself involved with someone who doesn’t believe in God. Is it possible for people with different views to have a good relationship? |

 | I make more money than he does I can’t believe this is still an issue in this day and age, but it is. I have been dating someone for about eight months. We know from our occupations that I make more money than he does. This isn’t a problem for me. |

 | I'm upset he didn't call me to announce his change of plans I met this guy through a friend at one of her office parties. We’ve been talking as friends ever since (about seven months or so) and every time we see each other (a few times a month) he says we should get together outside of his office functions. |


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