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How do I recapture her interest?
I'm 22 and women I've been with have considered me more mature than my years. I like older women. I mean, I like girls my age, but I like dating women who are maybe 25 or older as opposed to being with girls who are still school age. I met Stephanie, she's 29, at a beach party and she seemed to like me very much. She stayed close by me the entire party and before I left, she asked me if I wanted to spend some time at her beach house. I was game for it and accepted her invitation to come over on the weekend. We hung out (there was no sex) and we had a pretty nice time. We made plans to go out again. She called last week and canceled the plans and said she would call to reschedule when she knew what her week would look like. That was more than a week ago and she still hasn't called. I called her but she didn't return the call. I can't imagine what I might have done wrong. how do I recapture her interest?
A mature 22 year old shouldn't worry about recapturing the interest of a 29 year old. She canceled the date, said she would call, didn't, and didn't return your call. There are a few choices to consider:
1. She's really not interested.
2. She's playing that game I've read advocated to men and she's ignoring you so you will come after her.
3. She's legitimately got something going on and cannot break away.
You have two options: keep trying to contact her or don't. If you choose to contact her again, don't become a pest about it. I wouldn't give it more than another try or two. On the other hand, there's nothing wrong with not calling again as long as your intent isn't to try and beat her at the game. Make sure you're continuing on with your life and not making this a focal point. You don't know her well enough or long enough for this to be time or energy consuming.
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