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A guide to help you keep that loving feeling alive
By Charles Day
Many of us have experienced a whirlwind romance, a crush on a teacher or the special feeling reserved for the first person to touch our heart. Some of us are lucky enough to forge relationships and deepen our loving experience and in many cases we will cement our love by way of commitment or marriage.
Love is always with us on our journey of life. In many ways, it is the glue that holds us all together, that something special that inspires us drives us and influences what might otherwise by inconsequential decisions. That is because love is about sharing; many people describe their partner as the part that makes them whole. So why is it, that if love is so special, that we often find it difficult to maintain this feeling over time?
Firstly, love is an emotion; as a result it is fluid. Our emotions can be affected at any time; therefore the amount of love that we feel can rise or reduce depending on how we feel. In most cases, the underlying feeling of loving someone will always remain; it is the size of love that is affected. The level of love can also be affected by other emotions, the most important of which is trust. Trust is directly linked with love, for many people without trust, they can not love. The list below is a collection of tips that are designed to help with ideas to ensure the flames of love burn longer:
- Remember the feelings you both had when you first fell in love. What was it about one another that you liked or did? Try to recapture these feelings.
- In a long term relationship, it is easy to take each other for granted. Its really important to break out of this cycle.
- Arrange some love or special time. This is especially important if you have families or busy lives. Take some time out to be on your own and enjoy each others company.
- Act impulsively, do something romantic or daring. Send your partner a love letter or a special gift. Try not to make it look like a sexual advance; the idea is that you want to make your partner feel good, simply because you love them.
One of the most important things is to remember that love may bring two people together, however it takes an enormous amount of hard work and commitment to keep those two people at each others side.
| Charles Day is 35 years old and from Dallas, Texas and is a featured writer at DrDating.com. DrDating is a great resource for
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