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Don't you think she should tell him not to come?
 I'm in high school and a friend is throwing a party after the football game. She told me she was inviting a guy I liked but didn't like me when I liked him. I told her I wasn't going if she invited him because he would come with the girl he chose over me. She said she was being upfront by telling me but since this guy is her boyfriend's best friend, she couldn't leave him out. I think she isn't being my friend because it would hurt me to see him. Don't you think she should tell him not to come? Irena  Dear Irena, No, I think you should realize your friend was truly being a friend by not letting you be shocked by seeing them together. You cannot dictate to your friend who she can invite to her house. If it's too painful for you,then skip the party. However, you should know, that learning how to face these situations now will serve you when you're older. I think you should go and have a good time and when you see him smile and say hello. If he wasn't interested in you, the hard truth is you'll be thinking more about him than he will about you.
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