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Each time he goes away, she makes her move. I don't know what to do.
I've been divorced for several years and I have a grown son who is married to 'Norma'. My son travels a great deal on business and during one of his trips, Norma asked me to come over and help her move the baby grand piano from one room to another. My son told me she might be doing that, so I came over. We moved the piano and a few beers later, she confided in me that my son was so busy with his job and travels that she felt ignored. My son and I look a great deal alike and she convinced me she was so lonely. The alcohol helped convince me as well and one thing led to another...over several days during his trip.
When my son came back, she acted her normal self and my son never suspected a thing. He had to go away a few weeks later and again she called me to come over. I refused, telling her I couldn't do this to my son. She surprised me by showing up at my house. I managed to get her out of the house, but she's caught me in a bind. She could tell my so I seduced her. She hasn't done that so far, but each time he goes away, she makes her move. I don't know what to do.
Oliver
Dear Oliver,
First of all, the alcohol may have weakened you, but certainly not over several days, so let's just admit we went for the gold when it was offered. Second, the next time your son informs you he is going on a trip, suggest he take her along. Tell him you're getting the sense poor Norma is rather lonely and you don't want him to have to suffer the end of a marriage. You could tell your son what his wife is up to and what you've done to encourage it, but that won't do anyone any good at the moment, but be prepared for it to come out later and be prepared with how you're going to deal with the fall out if he should believe her over you.
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