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The thought that he would go to one of these parties is upsetting to me
I know youve had a form of this question before, but I want to know the answer for my circumstance. My boyfriend is invited to the bachelor party of a really good friend. He is standing up for this guys wedding, so, of course, he wants to go to the party where there will be strippers. This club has ads on the radio station that advertises parties ˜guaranteed to upset the bride to be. My boyfriend and I are talking about marriage ourselves, but the thought that he would go to one of these parties and remain innocent is upsetting to me. I dont want him to go but dont know how to make him not go. Can you help?
Pat
Dear Pat
Sometimes it's good to ask the same question because I've been known to change my mind. Except, I haven't changed it about this. You cannot make him not go because he's not your kid. The club advertises in hopes of getting guys to think this club is different than any other strip club and it's probably not, but boy, that tag line certainly gets them in the door. Your boyfriend can cheat on you without the party and you need to be trust that he won't, no matter what the circumstance.
Set the ground rules and trust he will honor them: he cannot touch, he can't be alone with them , etc. and then let him go and have a good time.
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