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I'm not comfortable doing what he asks. Should I just give in?
I just turned seventeen and am in my first 'real' relationship. I like sex well enough, but my boyfriend wants me to try things I don't want to try. He says if I loved him I would do them. I don't want him to leave me or be angry at me, but I'm not comfortable doing what he asks. Should I just give in?
Bree
Dear Bree,
If he loved you, he wouldn't ask you to make yourself uncomfortable for him. So there. No, you don't just give in. Your boyfriend is learning from the Jerk's School of Sexual Conquest. Someone who doesn't show integrity in a close relationship isn't likely to show it elsewhere. I wouldn't trust that he wouldn't broadcast his sexual achievements to his friends with you as a willing co-star.
Never sell yourself cheap. You are being used. If you like sex well enough with this guy, you're gonna love it later with a guy who really appreciates you, and you'll think it's wonderful when you've learned to appreciate yourself.
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