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How to Write a Love Letter
By Lorraine Harper
The tradition of writing love letters has been alive for ages. With the development of email and the internet, writing love letters has almost become a lost art. What used to be commonplace is now a rare gesture seen among lovers, so it's no surprise that most people don't know where to begin when composing a love letter. Here is a list of tips that can get you started:
Write from the heart. This is one of the most basic tips that writers give out to each other, and for good reason. Sincerity is the most important thing, especially when expressing special feelings like love. It's relatively easy for anyone to spot insincerity, especially within a love letter. This is why you should choose your words carefully and make sure that they truly reflect your feelings.
Keep your words simple. It's important that your love letter reads like something you would say. You're not out to win the Pulitzer Prize - you're simply declaring your feelings. Don't use words that you have to look up in the dictionary, since you want to be as clear as possible. Make sure that the letter reads naturally.
Make sure that everything is appropriate. Address the recipient properly, depending on the depth and length of your relationship. If you're confessing your romantic feelings for a close friend, starting the letter with "My truest immortal love" might scare them off. Also, you don't want to add sexual innuendo to the letter if you're not sexually intimate with that person.
Be in the mood and in the moment. It's best to write a love letter when you're inspired, and when you can truly feel overcome with strong emotions for that person. If you're having a bit of trouble getting in the mood, try to put on some relaxing music, preferably the type that reminds you of your loved one. You can also sit down in a quiet place and try to remember all your romantic moments with your loved one, as these will bring your feelings to the surface.
Presentation is key. Don't just write a love letter from a torn notebook page. Try to get some specialty paper, and to write with a good pen. It's best to send a handwritten letter, as this shows your effort and sincerity. Write in the best penmanship you could manage, and make sure that all your words are readable. Nothing can spoil the flow of a romantic letter like a smudgy phrase or two.
Proofread everything. Check your spelling and grammar, because mistakes tend to distract the reader from the meat of your message. If you're not confident with your writing skills, get a good friend to proofread your letter for you. After all, you want everything to be perfect. You may be writing the letter with your heart, but it's best to rewrite it with your head.
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