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Should I find a new place or should I let whatever is going to happen happen?
At the end of the month I will be moving into an apartment of a guy I met online. He origanially emailed me in response to a personal ad I had online. After talking for a few days, it came up that he was looking to fill the other bedroom of his apartment. The price was right and it's a great place so I paid the security deposit and set the move-in date.
The problem is, he and I talk daily and it's become very clear that we're attracked to each other. We've talked about this a little but I'm so confused. What should I do?? I'm supposed to be moving in less than 3 weeks. Should I find a new place or should I let whatever is going to happen happen?? Help!
Dear Reader
You think the problem is you're attracted to each other? Wasn't that the purpose of the ad? I think a different, and more pronounced problem, is you moving into an apartment with a man (or anyone) you just met. But that's not what you asked me.
Why is it a problem that you're attracted to each other? I can't figure out why you think it's bad especially since he responded to a dating ad. I think you should get the deposit back and find a new place because you don't really know each other that well for you to be moving in and be attracted to him. If it doesn't work out, or he turns out to be creepy (or if you do) you've got yourself quite a problem. (Why did you have to pay a security deposit on an apartment that's already occupied?)
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