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A friend of mine says I'm being used
 I've been seeing this intensely beautiful girl for a few months. She says she doesn't want me to consider her a girlfriend, but I do. There have been several times when we've made plans and she has either been late or never shows. The last time, she was expected at a company gathering and didn't show up. She called later and apologized and made it up to by allowing me to give her oral sex. A friend of mine says I'm being used. I really like her and want to keep seeing her, but I wonder if my friend is right.  Why do you consider her your girlfriend? She doesn't want to be your girlfriend. She doesn't show up or shows late, and she made it up to you by getting her freak on but not reciprocating. My philosophy has always been that a woman leaves a relationship too late and a man too soon - unless he's getting sex or the woman is beautiful-then they tend to hang on. She's made it very clear what she wants, and she's made it very clear she doesn't respect you enough to honor commitments, and you give her sexual satisfaction when she's in the wrong. She's not using you. She's taking what you offered and giving you what she said she would - nothing. Now, if your friend said you were being an idiot; I'd have to agree with that.
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