I went out with this guy for a few months and things were going fine when all of a sudden he told me he wasn't looking for a long term relationship and he was seeing other people and didn't think he wanted to see me anymore.
I have a friend who lives in the same apartment building and I ran into this guy in the elevator on the way to her apartment. He asked me to stop back after seeing her and I did and we ended up making out but there was no sex. He said he wasn't seeing the other person anymore and would be open to resuming our relationship. I'm not sure I should do it.
Taffy
Dear Taffy
I'm sure, honey, you shouldn't. This is obviously someone who is in the dating phase and not the relationship phase where a few months is about all the attention he's willing to give to someone so their dating isn't perceived as a 'relationship'. You were probably very convenient when he saw you and he played his hand and was successful. If you can hang with a non-commitment situation, then by all means see him again until he lets you know you no longer serve a purpose. If that's not you, then make sure the elevator never stops on his floor again.
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