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Are there signs you can look for to prove your significant other is cheating?
Are there signs you can look for to prove your significant other is cheating? My instincts tell me my boyfriend is cheating on me, but when I broach the subject, he says I am being silly and paranoid. I’ve never been paranoid before. I’ve never been the kind to badger about where he’s been or where he’s going, but my intuition has joined with some incidents that make me think he’s stepping. Are there signs?
I’m sure other readers can tell you the sign that gave their cheating significant others away and I encourage them to let us all know what they were. To answer your question, yes, there are signs. You need to be careful not to let one sign sway you and you need to be careful not to ignore what’s obviously in front of your face. One aspect of your relationship covers all of the signs and when that is gone you can start looking for the others and that is transparency.
People with nothing to hide – hide nothing. And sometimes people hide things in plain sight hoping you won’t look too closely at what’s sitting there. But if your relationship is no longer transparent – if aspects of your partner’s life are being hidden from you then you need to investigate. Here are some things to look for:
An unexplained decrease or increase in your sex life. He’s either getting enough from someone else or learning new things he wants to try out on you.
An increase in spending. All of a sudden, she got too much month for the money. Or she didn’t have that much money to begin with but she’s spending more of what she doesn’t have on new clothes.
A vigorous change in an exercise or diet program. All of a sudden, without explanation, exercise and diet have become a big priority.
They aren’t where they normally are. Longer lunch hours. Working late but they can’t be reached at the office. More meetings than normal but there’s no increase in pay to compensate for the overtime. People at her office who were normally so open and friendly to you suddenly can’t look you in the eye or hurry you off the phone.
Readers, do you have other signs that say you’re being played? Please share them!
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