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Can you give me a clue as to what is going on?
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I'm a junior in college. When I was a freshman and sophomore, I concentrated on my studies. I wanted to get all my required courses out of the way so the last two years I would have a few upper class required courses and then my electives.
That path made it difficult to date, well, I didn't consider it to be a priority but that didn't stop me from noticing the girls around me. Last year, there was this girl who is one of the popular, pretty girls in the school - it's a small campus of about 250 on campus students. I noticed her but did nothing about it. Over the summer, I cleaned up and loosened up a little and became more sociable. Well, surprise, surprise, it turned out she liked me. We started going out at the beginning of the school year and everything was great. We talked, hung out together and laughed. We didn't spend every moment together, but we were together a lot.
I don't understand what happened or what I did, but now she says she wants to break up with me. For a while, we were the most talked about couple. Guys couldn't believe she wanted to date someone like me and we were the center of attention at parties and things. I didn't get lost in all that kind of stuff and it never went to my head. She wanted to know if all the attention made me feel funny, or wonderful or what and I told her none of it mattered to me. What mattered was that she made me feel wonderful. She said that was sweet, but I noticed right after that she started to pull away.
She said she wanted to break up and I couldn't talk her out of it so I left her alone. She called me a few days later saying she wanted me back and she didn't know what she doing when she broke up with me. That lasted for about two weeks and she started pulling away again. She says I don't really care about her. Can you give me a clue as to what is going on?
It could she's confused about her feelings for you and she really doesn't know what she wants. But I'm not betting that's it. Assuming your view is accurate, what you've got is a labor intensive wannabe in the making. Popular girl going out with the geek. She's the center of attention and you're the talk of the town. She asks if you like the attention and you bust her world by telling her the attention doesn't matter. It matters to her. She wants the attention. It didn't help that you didn't find yourself crushed by her breaking up with you. My advice is that you tell her you like her and care about her but you don't care for the kind of games she wants to play and if she can't be in a relationship without the whole world being in it, then she has to be in a relationship with the whole world without you.
You sound like a level headed guy - don't worry, there's be a stream of women at your door.
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