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Could you please tell me the best way to handle the situation.
Hello! A few months ago a causal ex-boyfriend and I started seeing each other again. Well the psat summer, when we weren't dating, I made the mistake of kissing one of his friends. Now this summer is rolling around, I fear that he might do the same to me, being that he and I think I like him more than he likes me, so he also might say I did the same thing and it's no big deal. I want to be able to handle this with out flipping out on him and her. Could you please tell me the best way to handle the situation.
Thanks
Jess
Last summer, when you weren't dating exclusively, you kissed someone, now that it's summer again you think the guy you're now dating is going to kiss someone else as payback? Is this just something that happens in the summer? Oh good grief, why are you trying to create drama? If you weren't dating at the time of the kiss, then there's no foul. You were free to kiss anyone you wanted. If you're dating now and you both know it, then kissing someone else is out of bounds for him and for you.
If he kisses someone else a whole year later and says it's payback, he's a jerk. If you flip out on him or her because he did, you're not much better. If this is something that happens only in the heat of summer, move to Alaska where it won't be a problem, otherwise the two of you need to stay out of relationships until you're grown up enough to handle them.
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