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Dont you think he owes me at least one final explanation?
For my last birthday (my 30th) friends threw me a party at a club downtown. While I was there, I met a man named Michael. He and I hit it off really well and ended up spending the night together. What I thought was a one night stand turned into a relationship. Not only did he call me the next day, he asked me out. we didnt have sex again for a few weeks after the first time and he never pressured me. I thought we were really headed towards something when he announced he was seeing someone else along with me. He said he wanted to be honest because he did like me and he had to figure out what to do. We saw each other a few times after that and then he stopped calling and writing. I found out through the grapevine that he chose the other woman over me and they are engaged.
I think the least he could have done is called me to let me know. I think he owes me an explanation. My girlfriends are telling me I should call his fiancee and ask her if she knows anything about this relationship and I admit I am tempted to do so. Dont you think he owes me at least one final explanation?
Lisa
Dear Lisa
Did you say your 30th birthday? No, he doesn't owe you on final explanation. You already know what happened, you're just unhappy because he didn't pick you. What explanation could he give you that would change that? It would have been nice if he called and told you, but he didn't. You know he isn't coming back to you so his telling you that won't even give you closure. Your girlfriends are egging you on but should you even consider it, you'll be sillier than you're sounding. Calling his fiancee is petty and childish.
You're 30th now, try and act like it.
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