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I found a couple of issues of Playboy magazine on one of his bookshelves
The guy I've been seeing recently invited me to his apartment and while he was in the kitchen and I was looking around, I found a couple of issues of Playboy magazine on one of his bookshelves. I asked him if he subscribed and he said yes, saying they had great writing as well as the photos.
I find those magazine juvenile and I'm not sure I'm comfortable with a guy who will be comparing me with the women in a magazine. Is this anything I should worry about?
I'm amazed at our ability to create entire scenarios on little information and make a big deal out of what our imagination produced. Trust me, he won't be comparing you to anyone in the magazine. Even men who buy it for the photos don't compare "real" women to what they find in the pictorials; that would mess up the fantasy.
You've created a situation where you've given yourself permission to be weak and needy and if you allow it to continue, you're going to find yourself testing him and how he feels you compare to the touched up photos found in any magazine.
No, unless he's given you other reasons to think him a jerk; this isn't anything to worry about. Besides, Playboy really does have great writing and interviews. Jimmy Carter won the United States presidency partly because of a Playboy interview where he admitted he had lusted in his heart. Get yourself over it.
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