I have a problem: I like one of my co-workers. He's a supervisor that I have limited contact with. I think it's a crush that could turn into something more. The problem is: he's recently married. I avoid him whenever possible, but he's more and more on my mind. What can I do about this crush? I am afraid when we're alone, I may say or do something that will make me the other woman. I don't want to do that. Help!
Anna
Dear Anna;
You're kidding, right? You want to hit on your boss? A recently married man? And you think you might say something inappropriate? Whether you say something or not is a choice, it's not something that will just happen--just like whether you talk yourself into this 'crush' is something that won't just happen. Instead of giving yourself permission to do something silly, embarrasing and stupid, demand of yourself that you act like a grownup and put away those thoughts. It's not that hard.
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