I think my girlfriend may be cheating on me. We don't have sex as often as we used to and she used to be a real sex machine. She has some new friends who I know are guys but she resists all my efforts to meet them. I have never had reason to doubt her but there are just too many of the signs for me to ignore. How do I confront her?
If you had said only she didn't want sex as much as she did, I would tell you to err on the side of paranoia; but the fact she has friends of the opposite sex that she won't let you meet bothers me. I have friends of the opposite sex and my guy is as free to meet them as he is my girlfriends because people with nothing to hide, hide nothing.
I think you have to tell your girlfriend your suspicions. You can say you are not interested in taking away her friends, but it does bother you she won't introduce them and that she seems to have lost interest in you sexually at the same time. My tendency would be to ask flat out if there's some cheating going on. Ask her, gauge her answer, and either believe her or not and take it from there.
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