There's a woman at our church who insists every single man there wants her and two of them are stalking her. She has told this to several people and it has, of course, gotten around. The good news is, no one in church believes her, but the bad news is that we don't know who she might be telling this to outside of church. Is there anything we can do to stop this woman from ruining their reputations?
Xenobia
Dear Xenobia,
Either have a pastor or someone from the Membership committee sit her down and tell her to knock it off. If everyone is certain these men are not stalkers, then someone needs to offer her the chance for counseling so she can get to an understanding of what she considers stalking and why it isn't so in this case. Someone should intervene so can get help before she is tempted to escalate the situation to something worse.
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