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Is this guy living with someone else just stringing me along?
I live with someone but I have been seeing someone else. The other guy I've been seeing also lives with someone. He says he really wants to be with me, but is finding it hard to break it off with her. She is nice, and pretty (his words) but he doesn't feel this is a relationship that can go the distance. I broke it off with him but that lasted only a month because he kept calling me and I weakened. But now, we're right back at the beginning. He still lives with her and doesn't know if he can give her up, but doesn't want to give me up, either. Is this guy living with someone else just stringing me along?
Why don't you ask the guy you're living with and see what he says? Give the other guy the benefit of the doubt and assume he's treating you like you're treating the guy you live with. You're not in a very good position to wonder who's stringing who and you're not in any position to demand he give her up while you're living with someone as more than roommates.
But that wasn't your question: is he stringing you along? Here's one to open up with your webmates and get their view. Readers, see if you agree with me or not and say why:
No, he isn't stringing you along because you know exactly what you're into. You're seeing someone who isn't willing to break off another relationship to be with you full time. If that's what you know to be true, then he can't be stringing you along. Stay or go - but don't blame him.
Readers, your turn.
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