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My girlfriend has cheated on me several times during the past two years
How many times is too many? My girlfriend has cheated on me several times during the past two years and I’ve forgiven her each time. I love her and want to stand by her, but I’m beginning to think there will be no change in her behavior and I don’t want to be a sucker. When you’re trying to build a solid relationship, how many times do you allow this to happen before giving up?
When you’re trying to build a serious relationship, you don’t cheat. Only one of you is trying to build such a relationship, the other one is out doing wrong then asking forgiveness. There’s no reason for her to change – you keep taking her back which tells her what she’s doing is fine.
There’s no set number of times. For some people, one time is too many and for others (i.e. Hillary Clinton) numerous times can be tolerated. It depends on what you believe about yourself and your relationship.
If you don’t want to be a sucker and you don’t think she’s going to change, then this last time was the last time. The real question is whether or not you have the ability to let her go.
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