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My relationship is in trouble and I'm afraid of losing the best thing that's ever happened to me.
My relationship is in trouble and I'm afraid of losing the best thing that's ever happened to me. My girlfriend is beautiful. I mean, all my friends have told me so. They don't understand how an average looking guy like me ever scored such a beautiful woman. We've been together for about two years. About a year ago, one of my friends asked in front of our group of buddies if she looked as good naked as she did dressed. I told that she did and he goaded me saying there had to be a flaw somewhere. While she was sleeping, I took photos of her and showed them to my friends. She was completely unaware of what happened. Anyway, she got a call from one of the guys girlfriend who called her a slut for taking the pics. Her boyfriend told her. She confronted me and I confessed. She hasn't left me, but she insisted I call the girl and tell her the truth and now she says I have to go to counseling. I got a rush out of showing them the photos, so I'm sorry, but there's still that high. I don't know what to do.
Jay
Dear Jay,
I think you should be prepared to be dumped. You're not remorseful you did it, you're remorseful you got caught and that's going to show up sooner or later. You don't have very much self esteem if you let your friend talk you into dehumanizing your girlfriend and it's clear your friend doesn't hold women in high regard either. Maybe the two of you should hang out together and take each other our of circulation.
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