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Women on Top of a Man's WorldBy DrDating
It's not always an easy topic to talk about, even for seasoned couples, but discussing your lovemaking is one of the time tested keys to a happy and sexually healthy relationship. You don't necessarily have to speak about spicing things up with Girl Scout uniforms and gimp costumes with the go-along basement trunk. In fact, your better half might decide you're kinda creepy if you divulge too much in the fantasy department. Instead, stick with discussing lovemaking positions and find out what works for you. It's not always about turning sex into a marathon-length parade of indulgence with all the bells and whistles. Simply making it more enjoyable for the both of you is a huge leap in the right direction. One of the most loved sexual positions is the woman on top. Of course, there are endless variations here if you use your imagine, but simply having her on top of the action can reintroduce some amusement in the bedroom. Why is this a better go-to position than, say, doggy, side-by-side or even 69? It has to do a lot with the whole "Mars and Venus" axiom. Guys, let's face it: You're hornier than toads but, by and large, unwilling to put any effort into sex. What you're after is the finish, pure and simple, and this leaves your women wanting. Ladies, you're not being left out: We all know you want to be in control and also that pleasuring you lot is like solving a Rubix Cube in the dark - it's time consuming and only has one right answer. Allowing the woman on top is the great middle ground. The man gets maximum pleasure, as always, and the woman gets to be in total control of the sexual encounter. Guys get to relax and enjoy it and the ladies get to work their favorite spots at their leisure. It's a no-excuses position that's sure to satisfy both parties. With the woman on top, you're not limited to the Hollywood, slow-music-playing grinding. You can get wild and squat instead of straddle, switch to reverse cowgirl, control the flow anally, or have the man thrust from the bottom, and much, much more. And if you feel like risking penile fracture for the sake of pleasure, you can even try the lateral coital position (carefully!). It never has to get complicated with couples' therapy and touchy-feely stuff that just makes you uncomfortable to the point any sex becomes good sex. Just let her work from the top for a while and see where that takes you.
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