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TV, internet, or me
By Lorraine Harper
So, you are in a relationship with the perfect guy. He brings you roses, treats you to dinner and dancing, and is so affectionate towards you it makes all of your girlfriends sick. They say you are the luckiest lady in the land. Lately, however, the dinner dates have been postponed and the only flowers that you see are the ones at the corner floral shop. Mr. Perfect seems to be spending more time in the digital world. Between the mouse and the remote, where do you fit in?
Ah, computers and the television. Two of the worlds best fantasy outlets. Nothing is what it seems on these forms of entertainment. The woman sure do look a lot different when they are in 3 D, you know when you step outside the box in your living room and take a step into the real world. Sometimes your partner wants a no hassle night at home with the women he will never meet and those women who will not judge or ask him to pick up his dirty laundry. As for the internet, there are multitudes of things for your partner to do while online. He or she can play games, seek out different types of chat rooms, or check out adult sites. No relationship needs this, especially when these online activities become secretive. That is just not healthy for any relationship.
Now you know that your partner is using different outlets for satisfaction. If you choose to watch the game with him or decide to participate in an online couples chat room, then these activities can qualify as quality time. It is when your partner goes solo during these outings that you may start to have trouble in paradise. You may not be the ultimatum type of person, but that may be your only option. Ask your partner to spend more time with you and less time with his digital friends.
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