en-ushttp://www.drdating.com/DrDating answers your questions about everything to do with sex http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/she-doesn-t-like-it-when-a-man-uses-a-condom.php Sun, 10 Jun 2007 23:00:23 GMT I've been seeing a woman for a few months and we're about to move our relationship to the next level and have sex. She said she was on birth control, and doesn't like it when a man uses a condom. Should I still sleep with her? http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/how-do-i-inquire-after-my-safety-without-finding-out-the-gory-details.php Thu, 24 May 2007 23:00:23 GMT With all the diseases around, it's a good idea to know your partner's sexual history, but I don't want an account of how many women my boyfriend has slept with? How do I inquire after my safety without finding out the gory details? http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/i-could-see-she-was-angry-i-don-t-understand.php Wed, 23 May 2007 23:00:23 GMT During some sex play my girlfriend was performing oral sex on me. I placed my hand on her head to urge her on, and she slapped my hand away and stopped. I could see she was angry. I don't understand? http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/is-there-anything-wrong-with-public-sex.php Wed, 7 Mar 2007 00:00:23 GMT I've had this fantasy that I would like to make real. I've always wanted to have sex in a public place. I am thinking of trying to convince my boyfriend we should do it. I have brought up the subject before without coming right out and saying it was something I wanted. He didn't tell me no exactly, but he is more conservative than I am. Is there anything wrong with public sex? http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/is-there-something-about-sex-during-that-time-that-would-be-physically-damaging.php Wed, 7 Mar 2007 00:00:23 GMT My friends and I have this discussion at least once a year and we finally decided we can ask you. Is it alright to have sex during that time of the month? Is there something about sex during that time that would be physically damaging to a woman or to a man? http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/i-would-like-to-do-away-with-the-sex-games-and-get-down-to-a-more-serious-relationship.php Fri, 26 Jan 2007 00:00:23 GMT I've been dating my girlfriend for a couple of months. One of the things she did that attracted me to her was to flirt and act coy. She would tease me about our eventually being together and having sex and I found that terribly exciting. She made ‘the chase' more enjoyable. I did what I had to do in order to win her. http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/i-don-t-want-to-have-a-swinging-lifestyle.php Fri, 19 Jan 2007 00:00:23 GMT My girlfriend of six years has mentioned she may want to pursue a polyamory lifestyle. I don't want to have a swinging lifestyle, but I also don't want to lose my girlfriend. Should I at least consider it? http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/about-a-year-ago-my-wife-talked-me-into-having-a-threesome.php Fri, 19 Jan 2007 00:00:23 GMT I've been married for six years. About a year ago my wife talked me into having a threesome. I admit to enjoying it because even though it was with another man. I liked the idea that another guy was turned on by my wife and I could watch her reactions as she was having sex. http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/i-don-t-understand-why-women-are-so-eager-to-get-into-bed.php Fri, 24 Nov 2006 05:00:00 GMT I've returned to the dating scene after about 15 years of marriage. My wife passed away a few years ago. I'm not yet forty, but the dating has change drastically from since I was there before. Specifically, I don't understand why women are so eager to get into bed. http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/i-ve-been-having-dreams-about-a-co-worker-that-have-been-sexually-explicit.php Fri, 24 Nov 2006 05:00:00 GMT If dreams do have meanings, then I think I may be in trouble. I've been having dreams about a co-worker that have been sexually explicit. I love my wife, she has treated me well and there is no other woman I even think about let alone look at. http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/can-a-marriage-survive-without-sex.php Fri, 24 Nov 2006 05:00:00 GMT I am in love with a man who is about ten years older than me. He's a great guy. He keeps himself in great shape and is well put together in other ways as well. I'm in my mid-thirties and we've been talking about marriage, but I don't want to have sex with him. I think he's attractive, but I just don't find myself willing to sleep with him. Can a marriage survive without sex? http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/how-long-after-you-start-dating-someone-should-you-wait-before-having-sex.php Thu, 23 Nov 2006 05:00:00 GMT How long after you start dating someone should you wait before having sex? http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/how-can-i-get-her-to-the-doctor-for-a-test.php Thu, 23 Nov 2006 05:00:00 GMT I met this woman on an online dating service. I liked her profile and her picture and we set up a date at a local coffee shop. During the conversation, she said she had met several people via the site and it was well worth the money. http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/i-asked-that-he-get-tested-for-stds.php Thu, 23 Nov 2006 00:00:23 GMT The guy that Ive been seeing wants to take our relationship to the next level. Im more than willing to do so, but I asked that he get tested for STDs. I didnt think it was an odd request, but he is offended. He says he doesnt take drugs and was never one to sleep around that much. http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/i-have-a-foot-fetish-and-i-don-t-know-the-best-time-to-tell-my-dates-about-it.php Wed, 22 Nov 2006 05:00:00 GMT I have a foot fetish and I dont know the best time to tell my dates about it. its not something I am ashamed of, I mean, I like what I like, but I know some people might have a problem with it. How do I deal with it? http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/she-said-that-she-wanted-me-to-be-more-creative.php Wed, 22 Nov 2006 05:00:00 GMT I'm currently in a relationship. Recently my girlfriend and I were making out, when I noticed she looked bored. I asked her, and she said that she wanted me to be more creative. I had no idea what she was talking about (I admit, I've led somewhat of a sheltered life up until this point), so I asked her about it. http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/is-a-sex-only-relationship-a-waste-of-time.php Wed, 22 Nov 2006 05:00:00 GMT One of my best friends says that a relationship that has nothing but sex to it is a waste of time. She says that time could be spent finding the person with whom to have a special, serious relationship. I dont quite agree with her, but dont know how to make the argument. Is a sex only relationship a waste of time? http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/i-asked-him-what-he-was-thinking-about.php Wed, 22 Nov 2006 00:00:23 GMT I dated this guy for about four months before I slept with him. The first time we had sex, we were in bed afterwards and I asked him what he was thinking about. He got very uncomfortable and left the bed saying I ruined the mood. http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/i-have-a-girlfriend-who-is-really-into-porn.php Thu, 16 Nov 2006 05:00:00 GMT Talk about your role reversal. I have a girlfriend who is really into porn. She has a few movies and every once in a while she will buy a movie on pay for view. Now, I like porn as much as the next guy, but I think her watching is a little excessive. How can I ask her to cut down on the porn? http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/how-long-should-people-stay-in-bed-and-cuddle-after-sex.php Thu, 16 Nov 2006 05:00:00 GMT How long should people stay in bed and cuddle after sex? After sex, I would like to clean up a little and my girlfriend accuses me of just wanting the sex without the romance when I get out of bed within minutes. Nothing could be further from the truth, I just dont want to feel clammy. How long should I stay in bed to make her happy? http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/i-m-not-ready-for-anyone-to-touch-me-like-that.php Thu, 16 Nov 2006 05:00:00 GMT Im fifteen years old and I have my first ‘parent sanctioned boyfriend. He was over at my house the other day and we were on the couch kissing when he put his hand on my thigh and moved it very close to my crotch. http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/for-the-last-few-years-i-ve-had-this-thought-of-seeing-my-wife-doing-it-with-other-men.php Thu, 16 Nov 2006 05:00:00 GMT Ive been married for almost 15 years. For the last few years, Ive had this thought of seeing my wife doing it with other men. I told her of the idea and she immediately rejected it, though she did indulge me in a fantasy where she called me by different names or allowed me to act out as if I were other men. http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/i-found-myself-thinking-what-it-would-be-like-to-have-sex-with-another-woman.php Thu, 16 Nov 2006 05:00:00 GMT I was at a friends party and was introduced to this really stunning woman. Later, as I was thinking about her, I found myself thinking what it would be like to have sex with her. Im a woman! I had never had those kinds of thoughts before and now Im wondering if theres something in me thats a little gay. http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/how-can-i-get-my-guy-to-talk-dirty-to-me.php Thu, 16 Nov 2006 05:00:00 GMT How can I get my guy to talk dirty to me? He travels on business a good deal of the time and while it doesnt always occur to me that he might find companionship on the road, I want to give him some encouragement to be with me while hes away with me. http://www.drdating.com/sex/advice/i-m-really-upset-that-he-would-go-and-look-at-naked-or-half-naked-women.php Thu, 16 Nov 2006 00:00:23 GMT My boyfriend hung out with his friends last night - no big deal-except they hung out at a strip club. I'm really upset that he would go and look at naked or half naked women. He doesn't think it's a big deal and I shouldn't make so much of it. What do you think?