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It's not uncommon for two women to get together and fall in love. Lesbian love has always had its niche in the dating world. From the Greek poet Sappho to the hot women on Showtime's "The L Word", lesbians have been around for a long time - and they're definitely here to stay.

Perhaps the only problem with lesbian love is that it's so hard to find. Without a finely tuned gaydar, it's hard to figure out if you have a chance with any of your prospects. This is why online dating tends to be popular in the lesbian community - all you have to do is search for a woman who's also looking for another woman. You don't need to go through any messy mind games to figure out the other woman's sexual orientation.


However, most lesbians still prefer to meet potential lovers in the traditional way - face to face. The best way to do this is to go to lesbian-themed bars, cafes, or clubs. You can also go to the gay/lesbian section of your local library or bookstore in order to meet potential partners. Tapping the "lesbian network" can also help, since you can easily meet your new lesbian love through your friends and their girlfriends.

Whatever you do, try to avoid the common pitfall of falling for a straight woman. While it's entirely possible that some straight women are open to lesbian experiences, at least every other lesbian in the world has been left heartbroken by an experience of being let down by a heterosexual woman. Try to find another lesbian. Love would be much easier if whomever we fall in love with can return our feelings, but that's not normally the case. The safest thing to do in this mostly heterosexual world is to find someone whose sexual orientation is compatible with yours.