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I read your newsletters religiously and they have come in quite handy By David DeAngelo
***QUESTION***
Dave,
I read your newsletters religiously and they have come in quite handy, I gotta say.
A two mos. ago, a friend and I were in a coffee shop when he spotted a female acquaintance of his.
He talked to her a bit and said, "This is my friend...". I look at her and say, "What's up? I'm D." This girl gives me the bitchiest look I've ever seen and in her most appalled tone of voice she says, "Ummmmmm, WHAT'S UP?" ....as if I should address her, "Your Highness". "What do you want me to do [her name], bow down and kiss your hand, your Highness?"...when I said this, she was in shock b/c I just tore down her brat barrier and she tried to regain composure. Well sometime later, we fooled around some and got along pretty well. The catch is, after we fool around she gets clingy (like some wussy guy would do). Dave, have I dug a hole for myself with this? I'd rather give up the action than have some brat getting all emotional and clingy for me...what do you say?
Cheers, D. Indiana
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Yeah, this is a funny thing. If you bust a stuck-up woman's chops enough to break through the "Brat Barrier", as you call it, she'll often become VERY attached to you.
It's almost as if attractive women have been walking around challenging every man they meet, and when you meet the challenge she rolls over.
And I'll tell you what, I'd rather give up a woman than have her be emotionally needy and clingy myself.
You just have to figure out why she's being clingy... is it because she's a damaged person on the inside, because you led her to believe that you wanted a relationship, or some other reason, and do what makes sense.
Good job busting through the "Brat Barrier". I might just steal that name...
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