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I've made a commitment to figure this out, no matter what.
By David DeAngelo
***QUESTION***
Dear David,
For starters I just want to say your work is amazing and I really give you a lot of credit for really figuring this stuff out and not just trying to sell a magic cure for losers. Anyway.......I've listened to your Advanced series and read your book and I'm actually starting to figure this stuff out, slowly.
I went over to this girls house I met online (cocky and funny all the way) and I can tell that she totally likes me, I haven't closed the deal yet, but this is not the point of my letter to you. After I left the girls house, I met a friend of mine for a drink and realized something about him that has been elusive to me for many years. He understands this deeper level of communication that you talk about. I leaned back and observed him over the course of the evening. All he did was be himself, but he managed to ATTRACT two different women in the same night by just being totally cool and comfortable with himself and treating them like his "bratty little sister". He is one of my best friends and I never realized he had this ability because it's not really what he lives for. It's just a part of him and he knows exactly when to bring it out. He dresses funny and is in many respects, kind of "a dork". But that doesn't matter, he has slept with many girls, many of them very gorgeous. I could never figure out what was so special about him that the girls were attracted to. I brought it up to him later in the night and he had no idea what I was talking about.
He said to me that he basically just treats women (hot or not) the way he would anyone else. This may seem simple, but it really struck me as profound. As for my situation, I'm currently in a slow learning curve. I seem to be making gains all the time, but then it seems like I'm taking one step forward and two steps back. I realized after tonight that I need a lot of work and need to constantly REFRAME my inner thoughts because of some self-esteem issues. I'm on track though.
I've made a commitment to figure this out, no matter what.
Your appreciative and loyal student C
P.S. I know this was a bit long-winded but one more question. Is there going to be a L.A. seminar anytime soon? I really think it would be great to meet you and some of the other amazing guys from the CD series. I also need to try and meet some other guys who are either better than me or at least have the same interests and goals. I'm really struggling with this issue. I don't know how to handle this. I need someway to find other guys studying or using your material.. Ever thought of designing a section of your website for guys to meet up on? Thanks for listening Dave.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Isn't it amazing when you watch someone who you've known for years interacting with women...
and see things that you've never seen before?
In my Advanced CD Series (as you know), I spend a lot of time talking about this deeper level of communication... and when you know to look for it, and what specifically to look for, you'll see so many things that you've never even imagined were there.
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