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She ask me whether I am doing all this for sex
By David DeAngelo
***QUESTION***
Hi Dave,
I had downloaded your e-book and had been for months i start practicing what you had taught.
Phone numbers start rolling in by the dozen and every day i got soo many girls calling me for dates that my phone nearly explode of miss calls.
Now, i got to the stage where this girl got physical with me and i use your bridge tactic and got the kiss then went to the petting stage...
Then she ask me whether i am doing all this for sex... I didn't answer her and played the lay back tactic and say i wanted to sleep. She wake me up a few times to force me to answer her and i say nothing... and tell her that if she can't make up her mind she can leave. In the end she left.
Now. the question is . What should i answer her?
if she ask the million dollar question (AM i doing it all for sex)?
R. Part of South East Asia Conservative Region
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Interesting question.
I'll tell you what... there's a lot of power in delivering the truth in a brutal way.
I would probably answer something like:
"No, I was thinking that since we were kissing passionately and feeling each other's bodies, that this was probably going to lead to pure friendship."
If she pushed the issue and asked something like "Do you just want sex or do you want to have a relationship?" I'd probably answer:
"You're right. Let's just go get married tonight..."
The point is that by using a very direct, sarcastic, Cocky & Funny attitude, you can address the issue and basically say "Look, it's obvious that we both want to have sex, and it's OK if we do. It doesn't have to mean anything in particular, and if things work out between us, then they do."
As you know, I don't like the idea of being dishonest or misleading people. But in this case it might be a good idea to address the situation and her comments from a different perspective...
...a Cocky & Funny one!
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