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She had told me she was tall and cute
By David DeAngelo
***QUESTION***
Dear Jedi Master
I have written several times but my letters were never published. This time I think I have great material to contribute, which can help in your newsletter (one of them is this little face, women love them even if you insert them in the first e- mail you exchange, right after a c & f comment).
First, my success story. I met a girl on-line on one of those dating sites. I didn't expect anything out of it. She had told me she was tall and cute, I didn't believe so but actually, she turned out to be very pretty. We went out on a date at night (she proposed it herself thanks to my c & f e-mails), though I told her I thought it was kind of hasty, I accepted. The whole date I kept composure, I set up a relaxed and calm atmosphere, I just sat, laid back and chatted. The only c & f comment I needed to send in was this one. We were talking about the people we had met on-line. When she asked about my experience, I said I only met a nice girl, pretty and everything, but she was too needy and forward so I had to tell her "let's just be friends". She told me about hers, she went out with a nerd, a geek who kept her the whole night talking about computers and mathematics. I told her that "you don't get everyday such a lucky chance to meet such a cute guy like me". Result, in the end of the date she asked me if she could kiss me, now she is my girlfriend and everything is great so far.
The non verbal cocky and funny examples are many.
Once, in a disco I saw a stunning blond walking in. She was very poshy and nose-up. As she passed by me (all the attention was obviously focused on
her) I had this genius idea. I followed her imitating her wiggling hips and I squeezed my nose
(up) with two fingers (as if to say everybody stinks here, except for me). As a result, everybody around us noticed the slapstick comedy scene and was laughing out loud, even her when she caught me.
Another example is still in a disco scene. I was enjoying my beer with my friends sitting on a table. On the other end of the place there were these two beauties, they were all the time surrounded by loosers and sharks. Another idea flashed in my mind, as our eyes met, I show her my tongue and I gave her a raspberry. Her expression went from surprise (I can't believe you just did
that) to smile and then she cracked up in laughter. I kept this up with other strange gestures, like shaking my head as if to say "you're no good", then with other gestures I told her she was a drunkard. Needless to say, I went way further than everybody else. Another gesture you can add after you got her attention, is to raise your eyebrows. This approach is very good from far away cause you can keep it up for a few minutes without even uttering a word without approaching her directly walking towards her. You don't even have to worry about the loud music.
Another gesture you can do is shaking your hand with your fingers held together (a very Italian gesture), as if to say "what do you want from me?". And yes, it is a very good idea to imitate and tease them when they dance. It is so nice and fun to tease them, and they love it too.
My question is this one. I noticed that my girlfriend, when I come out with a cocky and funny statement, still laughs and enjoys it, but at the same time she gets frustrated and tells me to stop it as if she doesn't like it. What does this mean?
I keep it up anyhow.
I would like to address also the issue of body language. There are loads of girls who are too shy to look at you straight in the eye. They give you only a side-look. I advise to keep a friend around you so that you can catch these shy birds as well.
Message to everyone, get a book about body language, it can save your self-esteem and a lot of time too!
Thanks again, I still have a lot of issues to address but I realize I am making this letter too long
Thanks again man, keep up the good work
F from Italy
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Very nice, I'm glad you wrote in, because I was just working on some "non-verbal" ways of being cocky and funny and you have figured some of them out yourself.
NICE!
One great technique you mentioned is IMITATING a woman who is obviously very hot and/or stuck up.
You can pull your shoulders back, stick out your butt, and put your nose in the air... then look over at her... then laugh at yourself.
If a woman gives you a compliment, you can purse your lips and put on an exaggerated "James Bond" Mr. Cool look and say "she wants me" right to her face.
There are a million ways... great stuff.
To answer your question, I think it's a good idea to always keep doing what worked in the beginning.
If a woman was attracted to you because you were Cocky and Funny, then keep doing it later as well. If she puts up a fuss, just say, "I'm glad you like it."
The best way to keep a woman's interest is to KEEP DOING WHAT WORKED IN THE FIRST PLACE.
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