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For the last few years, I’ve had this thought of seeing my wife doing it with other men.
I’ve been married for almost 15 years. For the last few years, I’ve had this thought of seeing my wife doing it with other men. I told her of the idea and she immediately rejected it, though she did indulge me in a fantasy where she called me by different names or allowed me to act out as if I were other men. But the fantasy of actually seeing her with other men has gotten stronger and I really want to see her making it with someone. They wouldn’t be friends of ours – they would be strangers. I think I would like to see her with two, maybe three different guys. I’ve asked her over and over and she has turned me down each time. I think it would be a great turn around for our marriage and our sex life. How can I convince her to go along with it?
You haven’t convince me she should go along with it. You think whoring your wife to two, maybe three strangers would be a good thing for your marriage? On what planet? She’s turned you down. She has said no. You’re disrespecting her by trying to move her from her convictions and your fantasy of giving over to me just so you can get your ya-yas disrespects her even more.
A fantasy is called a fantasy because it has no basis in reality. In a fantasy, Jennifer Lopez never turns you down and Halle Berry wants you as no other woman ever has. Reality has a way of ruining our fantasies. You might want to consider what would happen if your wife did indulge in your fantasy and discovered she liked sleeping with other men for her own sexual pleasure and instead of indulging you by letting you watch, indulged herself when you weren’t around. Kind of messes up the plan, doesn’t it. You should also consider what would happen if you discovered she like it a little more than you wanted and you didn’t like it as much as you thought. Would you then punish her for giving you what you said you wanted?
This sounds more like a selfish wish than something for the two of you to share which means there are more chances for things to go astray. If you can’t respect your marriage, then respect your wife and leave the fantasy in your head, where fantasies belong.
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