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I'm really upset that he would go and look at naked or half naked women
My boyfriend hung out with his friends last night - no big deal-except they hung out at a strip club. I'm really upset that he would go and look at naked or half naked women. He doesn't think it's a big deal and I shouldn't make so much of it. What do you think?
Here's what I don't know:
- Who�s idea it was to go the strip club
- Whether your BF has a history of going to strip clubs
- Whether he knew before he went that you might object
- Whether he was there actually looking at naked or half naked women or if he was there hanging out with his friends and the women were a fringe benefit of being with his friends.
- Whether he disregards your feelings in other matters
- Whether he has a history of cheating or lying
- Your exact objection to his going to a strip club
I have a feeling you're not concerned about any of that, and you want me to spank your bad little boy for going to the strip club regardless of any other factor.
If you didn't know until afterwards where he was - he should have told you where he was going. Hanging out at a strip club, bar, or any other arena where there is an anticipated sexual aura is something to be discussed with one's significant other. Some people have a legit gripe about their loved one sharing any kind of sexuality with another human being - even if it is a woman who appears more interested in a pole than any man watching her. That opinion should be respected.
If he did mention it and if you had any objection to his attending, you should have made that known calmly and not given consent just to hold it against him later. If you objected and he still went, you've got bigger issues than women who are being paid to prance around in front of him and the other nameless, faceless men in the club.
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