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She doesn't like it when a man uses a condom

I've been seeing a woman for a few months and we're about to move our relationship to the next level and have sex. She said she was on birth control, and doesn't like it when a man uses a condom. Should I still sleep with her?

Nope.
Condoms don't just stop sperm, they stop other diseases and you need to protect yourself from that. But let's say you know she's free of diseases, you should still take responsibility for those little tykes that seek out eggs to fertilize and anyone, male or female, who suggests you dismiss that responsibility doesn't respect you.
You can try for a compromise and tell her as long as you are in the dating stage, you will wear a condom, or your relationship isn't taking that next step. If in the future the two of you are exclusive and can deal with the consequences of unprotected sex, you will agree to forego the condom.
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