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She said that she wanted me to be more creative...

I'm currently in a relationship. Recently my girlfriend and I were making out, when I noticed she looked bored. I asked her, and she said that she wanted me to be more creative. I had no idea what she was talking about (I admit, I've led somewhat of a sheltered life up until this point), so I asked her about it. She then explained to me that girls are touch-activated, and that there are certain places they like to be touched, such as knees, thighs, sides, breasts, etc. She called them g-spots, but I don't believe those are actually called g-spots. Nonetheless, I'm not sure where to go from here. Please help me.
-Lost in Love

Dear Lost
You certainly are lost, your girlfriend has told you what she wants to make her more sexually satisfied and you're hung up on the technicality of whether she's got the name right! Who cares if it a g-spot, d-spot, or b-spot, for your girlfriend, they're o-spots (as in orgasms) and you need to get to them!
If she likes to be touched and carassed there, your job is to use your hands and tongue on those areas. Try massages or gentle finger stimulation on each area and discover what she likes. I find it hard to believe you've had sex without touching them, they're all on the way to the promised land.
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