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The problem is she’s not very good at oral sex
I have a slight problem. I’ve been dating this woman for about two years and we’ve been having sex for about seven months. The problem is she’s not very good at oral sex. She is willing to try and she’s enthusiastic, but sometimes she’s too rough and other times she doesn’t have the touch right. I don’t want to hurt her feelings or stop her from trying, but I think it’s important this area of our life is pleasurable for both of us. She is a truly amazing woman outside of bed and the intercourse is great. I almost want to ignore it but it really bothers me to the point where I can’t.
I know what you mean about wanting to ignore it. You kinda think: ‘If this is our only problem, then I have nothing to worry about.’ And that’s a legit option, but you have several things working for you that say you can at least give correcting the situation a shot: she’s enthusiastic, the rest of your sex life is great, and you’re not just in it for the sex.
A lot of sex talk in the moment is directional: “Oh, yes, do that, right there.” Or “Harder!” Or “Slow down, yes, just like that.” When she’s too rough, gently ask her to take it easy. If you need her hand to move a little to the left, you can gently direct her had to where you want it. You may have to do that kind of guiding more than once, but if she’s as amazing and enthusiastic as you say it won’t take her long to pick up on it. If she should ask you about it, you can say you’re sensitive in some places and you like to be stimulated there. Don’t make a big production out of it and don’t put her on the spot by saying she wasn’t doing it right. Hopefully, the two of you will have even better sex. If it doesn’t work, you will have to make the decision whether or not it’s a deal breaker for the relationship. It wouldn’t be for me.
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