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Would it just be enough if I told him it was good afterwards?
Every once in a while my boyfriend and I will watch an adult movie on pay-per-view. The last time, he made the comment that he wished I moaned like the women in the movie. I told him the women were acting. He said he doesn't want me to act but he wants me to let him know that he's doing a good job. I don't feel comfortable making noises. Would it just be enough if I told him it was good afterwards?
I think it would be good if you told him during and afterwards. He's not asking you to record a soundtrack and yes, the women in those movies make a huge amount of noise, but you're not naive. You know what he's asking for. There are some resources available on line to help you ease into expressing yourself. The first question would be if he is indeed doing a good job. It is almost impossible to stay totally silent during sex. You may want to keep it low in case you wake the kids, the neighbors, or the crew on the space station, but you really have to work to be completely silent. Just don't try so hard. If it feels good to you let out one of those nice deep sighs we all feel when someone does something that feels good.
Work your way to it slowly and understand he is asking for validation on how he's pleasing you. Your verbal confirmation will do good for his ego and probably for your own.
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