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Erotic Experimentation for Him
By Kelly Wolf
While some men may not be comfortable with attention to their anus during sex, some men absolutely love it! Enjoying anal play doesnt mean that a man has homosexual tendencies or that he is twisted in anyway. It simply means that he is completely comfortable with his sexuality and that he is open to making his lovemaking experience as enjoyable as possible! Not every man is interested in anal play, so it is a good idea to talk to your partner about the possibility before diving right in. If your man is curious but unwilling to commit, try to ease into experimenting in that area slowly.
One very important factor to remember when engaging in anal play is that cleanliness is very important for both partners! Some couples use a shower as foreplay so that it accomplishes two things- fun in the shower and clean intimate areas. Even though your body has been cleaned before playing, it is very important to make sure that whatever you used to play (finger, toy, etc.) doesnt go anywhere else until it is washed. If you arent careful about cleanliness, the end result could lead to an infection. Washing may make certain areas slick, but a good lubricant is always a good idea to have handy. Also, if you have fingernails, keep them short and filed. The anal real is very sensitive and is easily torn with nails or other edged objects.
The first thing that most couples try is to use their finger or fingering. Some men, even if they are open to anal play, may be quite tense about your finger entering through the anus. If this is the case, dont try to pressure your way through, as it may hurt and kill the mood. If he feels tense, try making small circles with your finger around the anus and give him time to relax. Once he begins to relax, you can see if its time to put your finger in the anus just a little bit. When you are able to, start off by entering only an inch before taking your time moving in deeper. He will let you know how he is enjoying your movements. Once you are comfortably inside, you can experiment by moving your finger around different ways. Try moving in circles, simply go in and out or pay attention to areas that seem to generate a positive reaction in your partner. Most men enjoy having their prostate stimulated as well. The most effective way to give him an outstanding orgasm is to stimulate his prostate just before he reaches orgasm.
Before you become disgusted by the thought of analingus, as long as the anal area is cleaned it is no different than licking any other part of the body. Just the thought of your tongue at your partners anus can be just as stimulating as the action itself. If you want to give analingus a try, take a chance after performing fellatio (oral sex). Begin softly in circular motions around the anus and if you feel adventurous enough, you can even penetrate him with your tongue.
Some couples are open to using toys when trying anal play. Butt plugs are probably the most commonly know anal toy on the market. It is a simple plug that comes in a wide variety of shapes and sizes. Most butt plugs are small, but some individuals seem to live by the bigger the better and larger sizes are available. Anal plugs are enjoyed in a variety of ways including the sensation of an object being inserted in and out of the anus or leaving the plug in during sex.
Another type of anal toy that is becoming quite popular is call climax beads. Climax beads are inserted into the anus one at a time while liberally coated in lubricant. The beads then remain in the anus until he is close to orgasm. At that point, the beads can be pulled out one by one. Some men report that this experience brings them an orgasm that is too intense! When starting out with climax beads, the smallest size is perfect and you can always increase the size as you and your partner become ready.
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