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Sharing Your Fetish
By Brian McDonald
If you have a fetish that you really enjoy, you should be able to share it. Unfortunately, a lot of people are scared off by the idea of a fetish, so you have to learn how to share it in a way that is not at all intimidating. For a lot of people it helps to date people and get to know people that also enjoy a specific fetish or alternative lifestyle so that there are no prejudgments or uncomfortable silences!
If you are dating or even married to someone that doesn't share your fetish, it may be a process to get them to understand why you like what you do. Approach the topic carefully and perhaps leave the word fetish out of it all. Tell the person that you are involved with that you enjoy certain things, just as everyone does and you would like them to participate in the things that you enjoy. It could be as simple as you would like them to wear a certain type of shoe because you love to look at feet, if this is the case you can say that you find his or her feet incredibly sexy and you would like to see more of them. As you can see, it doesn't have to be an over sexualized conversation, but you should feel as though you can share your fetish.
If your fetish or alternative lifestyle is more involved you should be sure to talk to the person you are involved with as soon as possible. For example, if you enjoy the swinging lifestyle and you don't want to be in a relationship that doesn't take part in those activities you'll want to approach this topic as soon as things get at all serious. You can approach the topic gently by saying that you find your mate so sexy that you want to share him or her with someone else every once in awhile. You'd be surprised how many people are willing to at least try out fetishes and what some consider an alternative lifestyle.
Sharing your fetish may be a little nerve wracking, but you'll find that once you are able to put all your cards on the table you'll feel a lot better. Most people are willing to try anything at least once, so why not find a gentle way to approach the topic and see if the individual you are dating or married to won't indulge you, at least every once in awhile. Everyone has fantasies and preferences about sex; it's when we make them a taboo topic that they seem to take on a negative connotation. So, why not share your fetish and make it fun not only for you, but the person that you care about?
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